Lokasi & I will be celebrating 12 years of marriage this Friday!
Those of you who are looking for Mr. or Ms. right… here’s a few things to think about.
1. MAKE SURE YOU ARE SPIRITUALLY COMPATABLE.
[You might not think this is a big deal, but it is foundational to a healthy relationship, and will save you years of heartache].
2. MAKE SURE YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY COMPATABLE.
[Sure, they might go to Church, love the Lord, but if they get on your nerves you guys will butt heads. That’s no good. They need to be someone that you love spending time with.]
3. MAKE SURE YOU ARE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED.
[You might say, “I just want somebody faithful, the physical isn’t that important to me.” But, what if the other 2 areas match-up, but you underestimate this 3rd one? This area is important too, just read The Song of Solomon! “Lord, have mercy!”]
SUMMING IT UP:
Before I got married to Lokasi these 3 areas were my main concerns. For me, Lokasi matched-up all the way in all 3. Fortunate for me… I matched up in these 3 areas for her. [“Thank you, Jesus!]. So, instead of only focusing on LOOKING for Mr. or Ms. Right, just focus on BEING Mr. or Ms. Right and when the right time comes… it will be destiny.